The 24 Best BDSM Toys to Kink Up Your Bedroom

Some really do like it hot. Mix and match temperatures with 10 vibration settings to experience 32 different internal and external sensations. Temperature play is especially fun for the receiver when hot and cold are combined in unpredictable patterns. Combine with bondage or blindfolding for an added rush of arousal.

If you’re looking for an alternative to rope, cuffs, and keys, bondage tape is a super sexy and easy to use restraint. Bind the ankles, wraps the wrists, or use it as a blindfold, this PVC tape sticks only to itself. Keep safety scissors nearby, a must when doing any kind of rope or bondage play.

The santal in this candle smells intoxicatingly delicious (think smokey leather, sandalwood, lemon and cardamom), and when the warm oil hits your or your partner’s body, it feels divine. This candle multitasks as a pretty bedside addition or massage must-have. Bonus: It burns up to 32 hours.

Whether you’re a curious pleasure-seeker or wanting to expand your kink horizons, this quick read by sex blogger and podcaster Kate Sloan is packed with 101 detailed kink ideas. From spanking and sensory deprivation to urethral sounding to erotic hypnosis, Sloan makes kink accessible in this gorgeously illustrated book.

If you’re new to bondage, but don’t know where to start, this kit has everything you need to baby step into the world of kink. From a blindfold and nipple suckers, to a plastic pinwheel and quickie cuffs, this hand-picked selection of kink toys are bestsellers for good reason.

Spreader bars are easy to use, and enable many, ummm, exposed and accessible positions. This bar adjusts from 24” to 36” making it accessible for a variety of bodies. It comes with leather cuffs, to keep wrists and ankles comfy. Keep an eye on the person wearing the bar’s limbs for fatigue.

This heavy-duty restraining system fits under your mattress and provides eight points of contact for all kinds of kinky scenarios. Made from seatbelt nylon, it’s super sturdy, versatile, and allows for easy mid-play positioning.

“E-stim,” or “electro sex,” as it’s more casually known, tends to focus on providing electrical stimulation to the penis, scrotum, clitoris, and vagina. The cattle-prod style Stinger Electro Play Wand imparts light to moderate zap and stings, perfect for teasing, tickling, and training. It should be noted that any use of electricity has a risk of danger. Please practice e-stim with extreme caution.

Since 2004, Twisted Monk rope has set the gold standard for bondage rope. Ropes is ethically sourced and hand-dyed and conditioned. Their bamboo or raw silk electro-conductive ropes are spun with a copper-free mylar-free conductive fiber, which work well with Violet Wands and electro-stimulation control boxes. Bonus: If you have to cut your rope, Twisted Monk will replace it.

If you have a tickling fetish, you’re into knismolagnia. The cool thing about this fetish is that it can be done to oneself or someone else. Sleek and versatile, this vibrating feather has five different setting to tease nipples, a penis, vulva, or clitoris. Bonus: It’s fully waterproof for bath and shower fun.

Some nipple clamps are quick to fall off. These heavy, clothespin-style clips will inflict an intense amount of pain (and pleasure!) without going anywhere.

If you like butt plugs or dildos, take play to the next level with an ass hook. Anal hooks go inside your anus and then connect to an object or another part of your body with rope. (It can also be used in the vagina as a G-spot toy.) Warm it up or cool it down for temperature play. Or tie a wand vibrator to the rod to make it extra intense.

A souped-up Italian leather version of a snapping towel, the Premium Dragontail, arrives with a training DVD to teach owners how to wield it eight different ways. Guaranteed to last a lifetime, this BDSM beauty can impact from 15 mph to 800 mph. So basically, this sex toy can both break the sound barrier and bring a world of pain to your body.

We can’t have a list of BDSM toys without suggesting at least one leather flogger. This one won’t break the bank but still will absolutely get the job done. (Remember, it’s all in the wrist.)

Whether you use it for BDSM fun or medical fetish play, the 22 pins on this tool will send shivers throughout your partner’s body. Although the toy may look sharp and scary, pressure can be adjusted to create mild to more intense pain.

“Unlike traditional nipple or clitoral clamps, these two magnets (small or XL) can be placed anywhere on the body between the flesh!” says Taylor Sparks, erotic educator and founder of Organic Loven. “Because they are magnets they will continually add pressure as they attempt to ‘come together.’ How much pressure you can take will be up to you.”

If the thought of lots of drool, spit, and saliva, turns you on, the Glitter Drool Gag is for you. This sparkly sex toy is shaped to produce more saliva than your standard issue ball gag. If you want to make an even bigger mess, put honey on the ball gag. Or, for a sadistic twist, try Szechuan peppercorns.

If a traditional ball gag is more your speed, we recommend this silicone option. It’s inexpensive but still has a high-quality feel.

“This is a well-priced set of bondage cuffs that give you a luxurious feel,” Play says. “A good set of leather-like cuffs can elevate your BDSM play with a seamless experience and extra comfort.”

This glass dildo in the shape of a tentacle is definitely kinky. If you are your partner is into Hentai, you understand the appeal to this bad boy.

Akin to riding a mechanical bull, except with a thrusting phallus and no risk of being bucked, the Motorbunny is an unsuspecting BDSM sex toy. Hand the remote to a partner and let them control every thrust and vibration. Or, set up a DIY spit-roast with a partner and a realistic silicone penis. Hello, gagging fetish! Long-distance partners can buy the LINK Bluetooth & Internet Controller ($199) for sexy, virtual “buzz” and “twirl” play.

If you want the biggest bang for your buck, then we recommend the Take Control Bondage Kit. It has everything a beginner could need: a strap on dildo, cuffs, ball gag, flogger, eye mask, and more!

The term xenomorph is a mix of the Greek xeno- and -morph, which translates to “other shape” or “strange shape.” An interest in alien fetish is on the rise, and the Alien Breeder Dildo will give your hole(s) a solid stretch.