IF YOU’RE NORMAL, you’ve likely fantasized about having a threesome. You’re certainly not alone, my friend.
When Men’s Health advisory board member Justin Lehmiller, Ph.D., host of the Sex and Psychology Podcast, author of Tell Me What You Want, surveyed over 4,000 people on their sexual fantasies, he found that having a threesome is the most common sexual fantasy among Americans. 95% of men and 87% of women said they had fantasized about sex with multiple partners.
If you ever get a chance to have one, you’ll quickly learn that adding a third person into the mix might be a bit tricky at first. That’s why we rounded up 10 of the most satisfying threesome positions to try.
What You Should Know Before Having a Threesome
BEFORE YOU JUMP into bed with two other people, there are a few important threesome tips to keep in mind. First, if you’re still looking for a third, you should check out our list of the best threesome apps. (And don’t assume just because a woman is bisexual, she’ll want to have a threesome with you. Bi women are often harassed on dating apps, constantly asked if they’d be down to have a threesome, and they’re tired of it!)
Once you know who you’ll be getting down with, you should talk to everyone involved before stripping naked. That means setting clear boundaries and clarifying expectations. Quite a few things can go wrong during a threesome, but by talking it out with all members beforehand, you’ll up the chances of everyone coming away sexually satisfied.
Now, onto those threesome sex positions we promised! It can be complicated trying to fit everyone’s bodies together. Six is a lot of limbs! That’s why we’re here to talk about the best threesome sex positions, including options for bi threesomes, where everyone is into each